Friday, April 22, 2011

Only an idea can change you(r) (life) or....!!

April 15th,


I know you are thinking why I am posting after a long gap..!!
I was not busy.. But was not interested in blogging :D
Its boring now.. so thought of writing something.... since I am out of
college I don’t even have an assignment to write for time pass :)
Well.. it has been 2 years.. after the great college life....
on the last day of college.. Everyone will think.. how we will live
without friends........ of course i also thought the same...
but in this 2 years what has happened.. or what has changed.......
nothing.. or... something.. or everything.........
If we want to know what has changed we need to meet our friends
and talk.. Luckily / unluckily this didn’t happen :D
after a long gap of 2 years we planned for a get together.......
during college days we used to tell....... let us meet and plan something..
now the saying changed to let us plan and meet sometime (it’s not an SMS :p )

I thought of sending mail to my friends about this plan :)
Its not a class get-together.. as you all know that won’t take place..
if it does it may be the eighth wonder... :D..
It didn’t take much time to select the name of friends.. because most of them
have showered words of love on the farewell
Hence i was damn sure that they will come..!!
Why to waste time in requesting someone who won’t come :)


My mom called for dinner.. she asked what i was doing..
I told her with a sleepy tone.. that we were planning for a get together......
She smiled.... [ don’t know why ]

hey... we planned to meet after 2 dayz...................
I was so happy............. atlast the due day arrived.. :)
i reached the common place... and waited for my friend..
During college also i used to wait here for my friend..
if its a journey to ernakulam.. chengannur... kottayam.. where ever its...
this is our meeting point..
everyone came as i expected.... we decided to go to all the places that we roamed during college days..
the temple.. church.. pamba river... theatre.. restaurants...
last but not the least our great college...
Everyone started suggesting and don’t know how we are going to manage everything
in this 4 hour :(
this may be the last meeting as a gang :(
to satisfy everyone we started from the first place..
chengannur temple :)
Its near to our college hostel.. where we stayed for 4 years... ya 4 years..
now we want to visit all the places that we visited in 4 years in 4 hours :D
The God may be surprised to see us.. because we used to visit there only during exams :)
After disturbing God by telling all our problems we started to pamba,,,
sat sometime on the shore... dreaming :p
then to church.......... from there to college..................
nothing has changed there.... the college building that is under construction for 10 yrz...
also remains the same :D
our waiting shed.......... our auditorium... canteen..............
lots of memories started flashing..........................
the first day at college........ the lab exams.......... project days...........
university exam........ silly fights....... teasings............ at last the farewell day............
the tears...... for parting friends................

i can see myself moving here and there in college........ our classroom.........
the nostalgic feeling is still there..... college days.................
ya,, I am thinking of something that won’t come back...

ho... at that time got a call from home.. asking to come back soon...
hmmm... that made me to move out of college mood...

we started to one restaurant.... at that time we considered this as the most costly place...
we used to go there once in 6 months :D
because the noodles charge was 55rs there :D
Now in the place where I work we won’t even get a burger for that amount.......
how things have changed :(

We used to fight for even 50ps after sharing the bill..
but now........ fighting for paying the bill :)

we had a chat for nearly 1 hr......
now its time for everyone to tell bye.........
the same farewell feeling.... still the pain remains the same even though years passed....

we thought of catching the 4pm bus.... the same bus in which we have travelled more than 100 times..

said bye to everyone.......... with rays of hope that we will meet soooooooooooooooooooooooon..................

one of my friend is also with me in bus... she got down at her stop..............
waving bye..... [ I dont know why this stupid girl comes to wherever I calls.... ]
I reached home by 6......................
I was really tired and slept.............................

after sometime.. my mom woke me up... [ she has a habit of disturbing my sleep :( ] and gave my phone...

Oh.. my friend is calling... why at this time......

she said.............. " I cant come for the meeting..................... i won’t get leave.. I am little busy........."

i checked the date... it was 15th april.......... ya,,, the day,,, i had sent them email about the plan...

she said some stories and after that we ended our conversation....

I got few messages in my mobile............

" who all are coming"
" can we plan it some other day"
"I have exam......."
"I have a function next day, so i cant travel on the previous day"
"My mom won’t let me go ALONE"
"what is the need of meeting.. we are talking on phone na........"

I thanked BSNL and all other networks for giving message free...
else i won’t have received all these...............
and our contact won’t have lasted.........

But there are few who didnt even reply... Time may be precious for them..!! [dnt even have 1 minute to reply]



Hey.......... the story is not over... now I received a message........
" Can we make another plan.................... so that we can dream and drop later"

i thought of one of my friends dialogue........
"Friendship is for particular time..... not for lifetime.... based on our needs we should make friends....
in school.. college.. work place................."
[ dear friend .. if you are reading this post.. thanks a lot, for teaching me a quote that I can keep in mind forever :) ]


Now , I know the meaning of all relations.................. friendship is a blessing... :D :D :D
dedicated to all friends who knows to tell reason........

Now I understood why my mom smiled when I told about the plan


All characters in this post are fictitious. Any resemblance to real persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental. :)


[ Usually declarations should be made at the beginning of post... Hope you all understood why i didnt do so ;) ]


If you have felt any resemblance its just beacuse you are a true friend :)

1 comment:

vinayak said...

its been a long time..so good to see ur new updates...favbulous comback!!the gripping realities of ppl buffeted by winds of memories..:)..i wish if u cud gv the title of the passage, relating to ur "mothers smile"..bc i find that as a frame which encloses the whole story....