Saturday, July 2, 2011

Friendship is a blessing......... :)

In school days you might have come across the topic.. science a blessing or a curse..!!
Dont get shocked i am not going to write an essay on that.. :)
Can we have the topic.. friendship a blessing or a curse :D

If you think that you still have contact with all your friends to whom you have told "I will miss you" ...
if you think you have the same deep feeling for your friend.......
if you think you know what your friend is doing... where your friend is.........
please dnt read this post...
it will be a waste of time...!!
[No one really listens to anyone else, and if you try it for a while you'll see why... ]

if you have "ever" felt.... the words said during the farewell day is not kept... read this!! :p

college days gifted me with some beautiful incidents, that i have shared with you all before...!! college days... filled with fun.... fights.... outing with

friends..... group studies... watching movies........ gossippin....!!! tears shed on the farewell day.. with some polished words... "i will miss you...." "i dnt know
how lucky I am to get a friend like you..." " we can arrange for get-together twice a year :D "

Most of you might have heard any of these dialogues...!!!!

After college we will be very busy..!! calls from friends daily... messaging... group chats.... conference call....... hooo.......!!!!!!!!
seeing college photos... videos... eyes filled with tears...... thinking will that golden moments come back.... ;) [ i have even heard of some, who deleted all photos
from system thinking it make them desp..! and of others who have copied them to dvds :p ]
{ i thought oh gr8... how much they love the friends... how attached they are...!! now understood it may be to save disk space :D }

A few said.. " We can meet on your marriage... surely i will be there a day before :p "
[ Lucky to get a friend like that...... even relatives will come only on the day of marriage ]
My friends marriage got fixed... she called each n everyone in class...... only few came... there are so many experts who can tell variety of reason based on each
situation... i was surprised several times... None of the reason they tell is not repeated again...!! does they have some software for that... dnt knw...!! may be
reasons that they tell are always true...!! i dnt know... may be true... since they are our friends we need to tell our mind they are always right.... n we are
wrong... atleast " ONCE they WERE our friends..."

[ Do you want some superb reasons for tellin your friends.. have it.. " i am at home, but i cant come... i am so tired.... " "I have exam.... series exam is a serious
exam..!!" "I cant travel that much..." " My mom wont leave me alone...." "My mom is alone at home" " i can come only if the rest of our classmates are coming.. " { he
couldnt come, since one of the classmate was abroad } "oh my cousin's marriage........."
{ these are some reasons only.... if you are going to try this for the first time... tell the same reason to all... else you will be in trouble like some of my
friends.... have a happy time as a liar..!!!!! if you are not satisfied with any of this reasons, i will give a contact num for getting more reasons........ else a
website will be launched shortly by that gr8 person }

some told... "i will surely call for my bro/sis marriage"
[one called for marriage.. dnt know why that person called...!!! May be that person knows i wnt come... :D ..... there is one more reason... i told.."please call me
:D" atleast i came to know................... ]


I saw one of my classmate online in face book..! she has never called me after college even though i used to message her..!
she told me she is MISSing me badly.! :( After that she didnt even give a MISS call :p ..
May be she is busy..!
The only people who are not busy are the people who still remember their friends..!
Dont feel bad , if your friend is not having contact with you..!
it just means that your friend is busy.! and you dont have any work.. :)
this theory was proposed by a famous person.... who is very busy :)

no more blank messages........... no more miss calls.. no more missed conversations... life changes.... people too.....
Memories remains the same...
Dedicated to all my lovable friends......... who are still busy..............
if you have time , think why your friends are trying to keep contact with you.........:)
think only if you have time....
time is precious when you spend for others... its having no value if its someone else time :(
Thanks for your valuable time........
I dont know how to conclude this post.. :D
I have started writing this post 1 year back.. in september 2010 :D
today i finished it :)
I have wrote so many posts praising friends and friendship.! just wanted to show the other side of coin.. :)