Friendship is a blessing......... :)

In school days you might have come across the topic.. science a blessing or a curse..!!
Dont get shocked i am not going to write an essay on that.. :)
Can we have the topic.. friendship a blessing or a curse :D

If you think that you still have contact with all your friends to whom you have told "I will miss you" ...
if you think you have the same deep feeling for your friend.......
if you think you know what your friend is doing... where your friend is.........
please dnt read this post...
it will be a waste of time...!!
[No one really listens to anyone else, and if you try it for a while you'll see why... ]

if you have "ever" felt.... the words said during the farewell day is not kept... read this!! :p

college days gifted me with some beautiful incidents, that i have shared with you all before...!! college days... filled with fun.... fights.... outing with

friends..... group studies... watching movies........ gossippin....!!! tears shed on the farewell day.. with some polished words... "i will miss you...." "i dnt know
how lucky I am to get a friend like you..." " we can arrange for get-together twice a year :D "

Most of you might have heard any of these dialogues...!!!!

After college we will be very busy..!! calls from friends daily... messaging... group chats.... conference call....... hooo.......!!!!!!!!
seeing college photos... videos... eyes filled with tears...... thinking will that golden moments come back.... ;) [ i have even heard of some, who deleted all photos
from system thinking it make them desp..! and of others who have copied them to dvds :p ]
{ i thought oh gr8... how much they love the friends... how attached they are...!! now understood it may be to save disk space :D }

A few said.. " We can meet on your marriage... surely i will be there a day before :p "
[ Lucky to get a friend like that...... even relatives will come only on the day of marriage ]
My friends marriage got fixed... she called each n everyone in class...... only few came... there are so many experts who can tell variety of reason based on each
situation... i was surprised several times... None of the reason they tell is not repeated again...!! does they have some software for that... dnt knw...!! may be
reasons that they tell are always true...!! i dnt know... may be true... since they are our friends we need to tell our mind they are always right.... n we are
wrong... atleast " ONCE they WERE our friends..."

[ Do you want some superb reasons for tellin your friends.. have it.. " i am at home, but i cant come... i am so tired.... " "I have exam.... series exam is a serious
exam..!!" "I cant travel that much..." " My mom wont leave me alone...." "My mom is alone at home" " i can come only if the rest of our classmates are coming.. " { he
couldnt come, since one of the classmate was abroad } "oh my cousin's marriage........."
{ these are some reasons only.... if you are going to try this for the first time... tell the same reason to all... else you will be in trouble like some of my
friends.... have a happy time as a liar..!!!!! if you are not satisfied with any of this reasons, i will give a contact num for getting more reasons........ else a
website will be launched shortly by that gr8 person }

some told... "i will surely call for my bro/sis marriage"
[one called for marriage.. dnt know why that person called...!!! May be that person knows i wnt come... :D ..... there is one more reason... i told.."please call me
:D" atleast i came to know................... ]


I saw one of my classmate online in face book..! she has never called me after college even though i used to message her..!
she told me she is MISSing me badly.! :( After that she didnt even give a MISS call :p ..
May be she is busy..!
The only people who are not busy are the people who still remember their friends..!
Dont feel bad , if your friend is not having contact with you..!
it just means that your friend is busy.! and you dont have any work.. :)
this theory was proposed by a famous person.... who is very busy :)

no more blank messages........... no more miss calls.. no more missed conversations... life changes.... people too.....
Memories remains the same...
Dedicated to all my lovable friends......... who are still busy..............
if you have time , think why your friends are trying to keep contact with you.........:)
think only if you have time....
time is precious when you spend for others... its having no value if its someone else time :(
Thanks for your valuable time........
I dont know how to conclude this post.. :D
I have started writing this post 1 year back.. in september 2010 :D
today i finished it :)
I have wrote so many posts praising friends and friendship.! just wanted to show the other side of coin.. :)

Art of working :)

Life has become so much boring.. same office :p .. same colleagues.. same room mates.. of-course same friends :D
Even an idea is not changing my life :(
Waking up at 7.. getting ready to office… climbing 4 floors to take great hostel food..
That too pongal.. applying Volini after each breakfast.. prevention is better than cure.. little bit scared of getting leg pain :p
Atlast reaching office on time.. :)

Onsite call..! That starts with hello!!

Onsite coordinator( The person who gets appreciation for what we does) : Hai.. how are you

I : I am fine [????].. what about you [I dnt have any problem if you are sick also ]

Onsite coordinator(oc): Great [ she will be great, because we people are working hard here :p]

I: Can you please tell me today’s task..?

OC: I don’t have any task for you today.. enjoy :)

:( :( :(

Another boring day at office.. I cnt…How many times I will read the same forward mail again and again..
How many times I will read the same newspaper… [ I am a fast reader :p]



I checked my mail..! there is one mail from my onsite coordinator..!
She has sent me the same email that I have sent her yesterday..!! :D



Hi client , [let it be client]

……

……………….



Regards,

Onsite coordinator



She has changed the signature from my name to her..!! great.. :)
And kept my name in cc :(

Only one person can save me from this..
I prayed to God to make me invisible… He always answers my prayer…Because I wnt disturb him always..
I think he wont hear my prayer now :( I thought of having a tea..
Went to cafeteria.. and asked for a tea… I waited for some 10 minutes and he is not giving me tea… I shouted at him..
He is not even looking at my face..


Hey I became invisible I think :) :)
I can enjoy one full day at office.. No one is going to ask me why I am wandering here and there..
I came back to my place .. everyone is busy.. thought of pinging someone..
Mostly all have set the status as “BUSY”.. :(
{what you are thinking? How can I touch mouse? Haven’t you seen any ghost movies..:p.. Its like that..
NO one can see me.. and I can do anything :p .. got it..!}

I went near that girl who has kept the status as busy.. 5-6 chat window is open..
She is just busy because of this chatting.. :(
Suddenly she pressed.. ALT +F4 [ shortcut to close the open window :p]
{ please don’t try now… after reading my post you can :)}
See.. I learnt so many things… why did she do that.. did she see me..? :( [ 6th sense for her :p]
I just turned back… Her team lead has come :D



He started .. “ what you are doing…?? Why you haven’t completed the tasks I gave you??”

She : “If I am doing your work… ahem… I mean the work given by you.. how can I complete my tasks “

he : Staring.. :D

She : I will stretch and complete the task

Let her do work.. I started from her place..

I will try to find someone for chatting..





I : hi

X : I am busy.. ping you later..

I : need some help :p

……

{{{{{{{{{{{ No reply }}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}



She is busy.. What is she doing.. will check now [I am invisible .. dnt forget :P.. write it 10 times.. if its difficult for you to remember ]

I got irritated when I saw what she was doing.. She was putting kadalai [ dnt you know tamil.. ..!! it means flirting] with some one :(

Some are busy chatting , some are flirting.. what to do why girls are like this.. :(

Someone is seriously working there.. he is doing something.. he looks so tensed.. I think he is the only person who is having work..

I suppose..

He locked his system and got up.. He is going somewhere..

He started talking with someone in phone..

5 min.. 10 min… 1 hr.. 2hr..

Again he came back.. was scrolling screen for 5-10 minutes..

Got up.. went for lunch…

2 hrs over :D

Came back.. the process was repeated…

5hrs of call and break :)

Its 6 pm now… some started logging off the system.. [ save electricity.. go green :) ]

He is still there… one of my friend is asking him.. what he is doing.. he replied..

“I have lot of work… I may stay late.. you leave…”

He started working ATLAST :)

Completed all the task in 1 hr [ has he done the work so fast or is having less work ? :p]

Hey.. he is not leaving office… he composed the status mail and saved it…

After 3 hours he had sent the mail … [at 10 pm]

He has stayed 3 hrs after completing the work in office.

[why!! I don’t know whether the time will come in email when we sent :p..

I am a poor girl and dnt know anything :D]



Now I understood how I need to work and how I need to show others that

I am working… Shortly I will start a course on

“Art of showing u r working.. “

Please register your name before the next appraisal..

Oh God please make me visible..!! else my manager will think I have left office morning itself :)
I pressed Ctrl+S and alt+F4..!!

[Save and close]

My manager is coming…! Let me start the art of working :)

Only an idea can change you(r) (life) or....!!

April 15th,

I know you are thinking why I am posting after a long gap..!!
I was not busy.. But was not interested in blogging :D
Its boring now.. so thought of writing something.... since I am out of
college I don’t even have an assignment to write for time pass :)
Well.. it has been 2 years.. after the great college life....
on the last day of college.. Everyone will think.. how we will live
without friends........ of course i also thought the same...
but in this 2 years what has happened.. or what has changed.......
nothing.. or... something.. or everything.........
If we want to know what has changed we need to meet our friends
and talk.. Luckily / unluckily this didn’t happen :D
after a long gap of 2 years we planned for a get together.......
during college days we used to tell....... let us meet and plan something..
now the saying changed to let us plan and meet sometime (it’s not an SMS :p )

I thought of sending mail to my friends about this plan :)
Its not a class get-together.. as you all know that won’t take place..
if it does it may be the eighth wonder... :D..
It didn’t take much time to select the name of friends.. because most of them
have showered words of love on the farewell
Hence i was damn sure that they will come..!!
Why to waste time in requesting someone who won’t come :)


My mom called for dinner.. she asked what i was doing..
I told her with a sleepy tone.. that we were planning for a get together......
She smiled.... [ don’t know why ]

hey... we planned to meet after 2 dayz...................
I was so happy............. atlast the due day arrived.. :)
i reached the common place... and waited for my friend..
During college also i used to wait here for my friend..
if its a journey to ernakulam.. chengannur... kottayam.. where ever its...
this is our meeting point..
everyone came as i expected.... we decided to go to all the places that we roamed during college days..
the temple.. church.. pamba river... theatre.. restaurants...
last but not the least our great college...
Everyone started suggesting and don’t know how we are going to manage everything
in this 4 hour :(
this may be the last meeting as a gang :(
to satisfy everyone we started from the first place..
chengannur temple :)
Its near to our college hostel.. where we stayed for 4 years... ya 4 years..
now we want to visit all the places that we visited in 4 years in 4 hours :D
The God may be surprised to see us.. because we used to visit there only during exams :)
After disturbing God by telling all our problems we started to pamba,,,
sat sometime on the shore... dreaming :p
then to church.......... from there to college..................
nothing has changed there.... the college building that is under construction for 10 yrz...
also remains the same :D
our waiting shed.......... our auditorium... canteen..............
lots of memories started flashing..........................
the first day at college........ the lab exams.......... project days...........
university exam........ silly fights....... teasings............ at last the farewell day............
the tears...... for parting friends................

i can see myself moving here and there in college........ our classroom.........
the nostalgic feeling is still there..... college days.................
ya,, I am thinking of something that won’t come back...

ho... at that time got a call from home.. asking to come back soon...
hmmm... that made me to move out of college mood...

we started to one restaurant.... at that time we considered this as the most costly place...
we used to go there once in 6 months :D
because the noodles charge was 55rs there :D
Now in the place where I work we won’t even get a burger for that amount.......
how things have changed :(

We used to fight for even 50ps after sharing the bill..
but now........ fighting for paying the bill :)

we had a chat for nearly 1 hr......
now its time for everyone to tell bye.........
the same farewell feeling.... still the pain remains the same even though years passed....

we thought of catching the 4pm bus.... the same bus in which we have travelled more than 100 times..

said bye to everyone.......... with rays of hope that we will meet soooooooooooooooooooooooon..................

one of my friend is also with me in bus... she got down at her stop..............
waving bye..... [ I dont know why this stupid girl comes to wherever I calls.... ]
I reached home by 6......................
I was really tired and slept.............................

after sometime.. my mom woke me up... [ she has a habit of disturbing my sleep :( ] and gave my phone...

Oh.. my friend is calling... why at this time......

she said.............. " I cant come for the meeting..................... i won’t get leave.. I am little busy........."

i checked the date... it was 15th april.......... ya,,, the day,,, i had sent them email about the plan...

she said some stories and after that we ended our conversation....

I got few messages in my mobile............

" who all are coming"
" can we plan it some other day"
"I have exam......."
"I have a function next day, so i cant travel on the previous day"
"My mom won’t let me go ALONE"
"what is the need of meeting.. we are talking on phone na........"

I thanked BSNL and all other networks for giving message free...
else i won’t have received all these...............
and our contact won’t have lasted.........

But there are few who didnt even reply... Time may be precious for them..!! [dnt even have 1 minute to reply]



Hey.......... the story is not over... now I received a message........
" Can we make another plan.................... so that we can dream and drop later"

i thought of one of my friends dialogue........
"Friendship is for particular time..... not for lifetime.... based on our needs we should make friends....
in school.. college.. work place................."
[ dear friend .. if you are reading this post.. thanks a lot, for teaching me a quote that I can keep in mind forever :) ]


Now , I know the meaning of all relations.................. friendship is a blessing... :D :D :D
dedicated to all friends who knows to tell reason........

Now I understood why my mom smiled when I told about the plan

All characters in this post are fictitious. Any resemblance to real persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental. :)

[ Usually declarations should be made at the beginning of post... Hope you all understood why i didnt do so ;) ]

If you have felt any resemblance its just beacuse you are a true friend :)