Only an idea can change you(r) (life) or....!!

April 15th,

I know you are thinking why I am posting after a long gap..!!
I was not busy.. But was not interested in blogging :D
Its boring now.. so thought of writing something.... since I am out of
college I don’t even have an assignment to write for time pass :)
Well.. it has been 2 years.. after the great college life....
on the last day of college.. Everyone will think.. how we will live
without friends........ of course i also thought the same...
but in this 2 years what has happened.. or what has changed.......
nothing.. or... something.. or everything.........
If we want to know what has changed we need to meet our friends
and talk.. Luckily / unluckily this didn’t happen :D
after a long gap of 2 years we planned for a get together.......
during college days we used to tell....... let us meet and plan something..
now the saying changed to let us plan and meet sometime (it’s not an SMS :p )

I thought of sending mail to my friends about this plan :)
Its not a class get-together.. as you all know that won’t take place..
if it does it may be the eighth wonder... :D..
It didn’t take much time to select the name of friends.. because most of them
have showered words of love on the farewell
Hence i was damn sure that they will come..!!
Why to waste time in requesting someone who won’t come :)


My mom called for dinner.. she asked what i was doing..
I told her with a sleepy tone.. that we were planning for a get together......
She smiled.... [ don’t know why ]

hey... we planned to meet after 2 dayz...................
I was so happy............. atlast the due day arrived.. :)
i reached the common place... and waited for my friend..
During college also i used to wait here for my friend..
if its a journey to ernakulam.. chengannur... kottayam.. where ever its...
this is our meeting point..
everyone came as i expected.... we decided to go to all the places that we roamed during college days..
the temple.. church.. pamba river... theatre.. restaurants...
last but not the least our great college...
Everyone started suggesting and don’t know how we are going to manage everything
in this 4 hour :(
this may be the last meeting as a gang :(
to satisfy everyone we started from the first place..
chengannur temple :)
Its near to our college hostel.. where we stayed for 4 years... ya 4 years..
now we want to visit all the places that we visited in 4 years in 4 hours :D
The God may be surprised to see us.. because we used to visit there only during exams :)
After disturbing God by telling all our problems we started to pamba,,,
sat sometime on the shore... dreaming :p
then to church.......... from there to college..................
nothing has changed there.... the college building that is under construction for 10 yrz...
also remains the same :D
our waiting shed.......... our auditorium... canteen..............
lots of memories started flashing..........................
the first day at college........ the lab exams.......... project days...........
university exam........ silly fights....... teasings............ at last the farewell day............
the tears...... for parting friends................

i can see myself moving here and there in college........ our classroom.........
the nostalgic feeling is still there..... college days.................
ya,, I am thinking of something that won’t come back...

ho... at that time got a call from home.. asking to come back soon...
hmmm... that made me to move out of college mood...

we started to one restaurant.... at that time we considered this as the most costly place...
we used to go there once in 6 months :D
because the noodles charge was 55rs there :D
Now in the place where I work we won’t even get a burger for that amount.......
how things have changed :(

We used to fight for even 50ps after sharing the bill..
but now........ fighting for paying the bill :)

we had a chat for nearly 1 hr......
now its time for everyone to tell bye.........
the same farewell feeling.... still the pain remains the same even though years passed....

we thought of catching the 4pm bus.... the same bus in which we have travelled more than 100 times..

said bye to everyone.......... with rays of hope that we will meet soooooooooooooooooooooooon..................

one of my friend is also with me in bus... she got down at her stop..............
waving bye..... [ I dont know why this stupid girl comes to wherever I calls.... ]
I reached home by 6......................
I was really tired and slept.............................

after sometime.. my mom woke me up... [ she has a habit of disturbing my sleep :( ] and gave my phone...

Oh.. my friend is calling... why at this time......

she said.............. " I cant come for the meeting..................... i won’t get leave.. I am little busy........."

i checked the date... it was 15th april.......... ya,,, the day,,, i had sent them email about the plan...

she said some stories and after that we ended our conversation....

I got few messages in my mobile............

" who all are coming"
" can we plan it some other day"
"I have exam......."
"I have a function next day, so i cant travel on the previous day"
"My mom won’t let me go ALONE"
"what is the need of meeting.. we are talking on phone na........"

I thanked BSNL and all other networks for giving message free...
else i won’t have received all these...............
and our contact won’t have lasted.........

But there are few who didnt even reply... Time may be precious for them..!! [dnt even have 1 minute to reply]



Hey.......... the story is not over... now I received a message........
" Can we make another plan.................... so that we can dream and drop later"

i thought of one of my friends dialogue........
"Friendship is for particular time..... not for lifetime.... based on our needs we should make friends....
in school.. college.. work place................."
[ dear friend .. if you are reading this post.. thanks a lot, for teaching me a quote that I can keep in mind forever :) ]


Now , I know the meaning of all relations.................. friendship is a blessing... :D :D :D
dedicated to all friends who knows to tell reason........

Now I understood why my mom smiled when I told about the plan

All characters in this post are fictitious. Any resemblance to real persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental. :)

[ Usually declarations should be made at the beginning of post... Hope you all understood why i didnt do so ;) ]

If you have felt any resemblance its just beacuse you are a true friend :)

Every Relation Has An End ( Diz headin doesnt suite diz post :D)

I am writing this true story since my friend forced me to do so...she told me not to reveal her identity.. I dnt know why she said so..!!! She is with me now..!! She is seein what i am typing.. So i can tell only the truth..!!!! Believe me........ Its true... U know na I wnt lie :D
lets take a look on our training in one of the top most software company..!!! well... we dont have a tutor now.... we can see some messaging in class..... chatting....!! I was talking with 1 tamil girl..!!!! She was telling her school stories....... suddenly she received an sms....... her eyes was filled with tears........ i asked her the reason....... but she didnt tell it... Then I didnt force her....!! Why should we interfere in her personal matters...[ see i have become a good girl].. ya........ she continued her talk...!
Story of 2 friends...!!!! sorry.. not college friends..!! school friends..!! :D..... I dnt knw how she met him...!! The only thing that i know is they were friends from 7th standard..........!! From same place...bench mates.... they used 2 go to school together..! Their friendship started growing................. without any misunderstanding....... without stupid fights..... Time passed.... 9th standard...... As usual stories.. she was the topper and he the second topper.... once she was having 2 marks more than him... she reduced 3 marks to make him the topper... he came to know this from some teacher and he too reduced his mark..!!!! Well.. I liked it... both of them value their friendship and is ready to do anything for it... Far better than some people who used to keep a relation for their need only!!!!!! [ I dnt have personal experience.. someone told like that... I didnt lie ] There are so many silly silly incidents..... some of you will laugh if you hear it.... some may cry..!! [ Did u laugh by reading the "mark" story.., if so you dont value friendship... ;) ]they had a school tour..........After returning She went to her native place for a small vacation........ In class when she talked with him, he didnt respond.... She thought he may be busy.... but daily it continued... She asked him the reason, he didnt tell anything............ :( Atlast he told................. "If you TALK with me, i feel so bad..." Her eyes were filled with tears.. He said dnt cry in front of me.... Get Lost[ She told me, he didnt tel get lost... but let it be here].... :( :( :(
Ya.. he stopped talking with her......... When something ends , then only we notice how beautiful the beginning was......he ended everything without tellin the reason.... The pain would have been less.. if he had told atleast the reason............
She bought new cycle... Her friend teased her saying that its not good.... he was also standing there....When she left.. he scolded her friend for teasing her... [hey... he stil values the relation.... Then y he is avoiding her...!]
they were in same class for 12th also.. But he didnt talk with her...... Both of them selected engineering... But in different colleges............ Once she got his number from her friend... She didnt save it... She kept the num in her mind.......!!!!! She got a blank message from that number after 7 years............
Now i understood y she cried during our training... It was because of this message........................................
Now also she cherish the good memories with him... Her best friend............ remembers him in her prayers...... Her last wish is to talk with him atleast for a minute............ We had so many friends during school days... Do you remember any of their name...???? sweet memories...???? may be not....... I dnt have words to express how much she value him.....
She promised me, she will bring some his rough notes [7th standard] tomorrow...... even the chits that he wrote......! [ I dont know why she is keeping all that with her..........]When i asked her, she smiled.............[ There are something in this world that we can explain by a sweet smile.....]It is one of the best story that i heard in my training period...........I asked her to review this..... I could see the pain in her eyes............

Real Joy Mathew Vs Virtual Joy Mathew

This is the story of a smart girl...( hey not me.. Thanks for your guess)... There are some other girls who are smart...(but not as smart as me...!! :D)..
A girl who is font of orkut(not me!!)..Since time is precious I am not giving an introduction.. we will go directly to the story..! We have seen people making fake orkut profiles.. especially boys in the name of girls..!! But this one is different.. we made an orkut profile in the name of a boy "Joy Mathew"( please dont search in orkut now.. it doesnt exist.... we deleted it due to some personal reason..) We sent a friend request to her.. She accepted the the request.. It was not a big surprise.. We tried our level best to make the profile look real.. but the pincode we added was wrong.. We gave the place name as trivandrum.. and gave the code of ernakulam... what to do... as law says there is a loop hole in every crime... :( ... To our surprise some strangers noticed this and not she.. After some days she told us.. her neighbour joy mathew sent her a friend request in orkut.. What a coincidence .... she knows someone named joy mathew , we were shocked....!!!!!!!!!!!! Then it was very easy for us...... From his id we started scrapping her... so many usual questions..........
" How are you.."
" Heard from your mom that you are doing engineering"
"How is your studies"
"will you come to church this sunday..?"
She was bit confused by those scraps...( he dont even smile at her, when she sees him... then why such scraps..!!)
Again he( not he, we) scrapped....
" Can you come to gtalk this sunday?"
Well..... we thought of chatting with her... But that smart girl was afraid and didnt come online for somedays..!!!
He( got confused..??? I have told once its we ok?? ) was not ready to give up... he again scrapped...
"Why you didnt come online.. I waited for you....."
" Miss you da chakkareee........." (Its copyrighted..! :D)
She deleted all those scraps.. She might have thought someone will see those scraps.. She told her close friends (ofcourse we)that joy mathew is disturbing her.. we said...
"Be cool"
(in mind..... then only we can play with you dear...)
She won prize for singing in church..........
Joy mathew scrapped her...
" Congrats.. I want treat.. I thought you will scrap me that great news... but you didnt... :( "
Now she confirmed its her neighbour itself..... next weekend she met the real Joy mathew in railway station.. She was about to ask him, but didnt since his train came... ( Thank God!!!!!!!).. what would have happened , if she had asked him..( Dnt think, I too dnt want to imagine that moment.!)
She told us about the railway station incident.. I was in my room lying on bed... I kept my face tight to pillow, so that she cant see me laughing.... She was going on telling about the stupid things that ( fake) Joy mathew was doing... he has put madhavan's photo as profile picture( her favourite actor) .. he joined all her communities in orkut......... he is sending testimonials........ blah... blah.................!!
We thought if we go on scrapping her..... she will shout at him one day... else she may fall for him :D ......we dont want both to happen...so we told her what really happened... eventhough she was angry she took it as a joke..... her anger might have disappeared in our smile..! ( :) So sweet smile as my words)
Courtsey..!
>>>>>> thanks to orkut, who allows people to make more than 1 profile
>>>>>> to our classmates who were a role model in such chats...
>>>>>>to boys who knows how to flirt nicely...( hey i am not a feminist!)
>>>>>>and to all who have read this post...! Hey dnt waste time... do your work.. Its enough reading blogs !! :D

A post vthout headin!!! [is dis a headin??]

I dnt know y i take a long gap in makin new postz...! wel..i was nt busy.... but was in search f a new topic... got one...!! ofcourse a real story![ u knw na..... i rite only real stories...]
letz make a flash back frm colg to school lyf....our 10th....after 10th most f d parentz wnt hesitate to rush 2 an entrance cooachin centre to get an admisn der..I too got an admsn in 1 f d top institute in Kerala.. :Du r rit.. thrissur.. ;)An entirely different atmosphere frm school.........vth video camz fitted at each corner f d room...studentz sat der vthout any xpression on der face... dnt 4get dey r future engineerz n doctorzz.....teaching 40 ques an hr... stil dnt knw wat dey taught.. dnt knw d name f teacher... n even d name f person who sat near me..! :D
Dnt think I'm not frdly... v were nt allowed to talk in class.... wen 1 sir was takin cls, d nxt 1 vl b waiting outside 2 take away our nxt 1 hr..... while takin lunch also v were observed by faculties... tink how pathetic our situation was...! :(Even though v sufferd a lot in d coachin center..v had some fun in hstl..! ;)
Durin d last day f coachin session..(i tink it ws onam vacn..) v decided 2 do smtng new in our hstl..oh sry v stayed as payin guest..evry1 started tinkin.. wat 2 do..... d first ting dat came 2 my mind was 2 try ojo...!!The best ting dat v can do in a hstl.. decided 2 try it...der were 5 or 6 girlzz..... After cls v bought chart paper n candle.....(1 day b4 last cls).. i started riting alphabetz n numberz...(so dat it may ressemble an ojo :D) der ver 2 otr girlz 2 help me... v wer so thrilled bcz d nxt day v ver goin to try it!dat nite 1 f my frd who helped 2 draw ojo saw a dream.............
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dat her dad came while tryin ojo....
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hope u people havnt seen malayalam film aparichithan... :D
she started cryin n said...... i wnt join u.. ;) ......
der ws 1 girl named Indu... she told... she vl join us.....her grandma ws an expert in interactin vth spiritzz... she had tried it b4.....
wel... i ws flattered by her wordzz... ;).... a perfect match for me 2 try ojo....
v started ....... arranged candle... n coin..... v need 2 cal sm spirit..! der ws a big confusion... whom v vl cal... rejani...[dnt u remember her....... ex-student of adoor engg colg...who jumped frm top f a buildin].......... soundarya[ d famous south indian actress who died in plane crash.....................]smtymz it may seem funny 4 u people... but v wer very serious............. :D

kept our forefinger on top f coin..........

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Gud spirit plzzzzzz come~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I cudnt ctrl my laugh.............. no need 2 tink d reason... i vl tel.... ;) ....... bcz al d girlz had tied sacred thread frm temple around der hand..!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [ including me... :D r dey afraid.......! y didnt dey remove it b4 tryin ojo............... still i dnt knw d reason... hope u got it.... ;) ]
feelin bored by readin dis..!??? oh.. no .. continue readin... derz smtng interestin.....
wat 2 do... v failed in our atmpt...!d tym ws 10.30...[may be..!!]
v switched on lite.. started tinkin y didnt it work.... sm1 told d tym ws nt 12... dat may b d reason..!!
decided 2 try it at 12........................
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Gud spirit plzzzzzz come~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Gud spirit plzzzzzz come~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
now also............. it didnt work....now evry1 had a smile on der face...!!![b4 tryin.... al ver afraid..!!]at dat tym i noticed d smart girl Indu[ dnt u remember her....? d girl who had tried ojo several tymzz...!] took a small photo f God frm her pocket.... ![ y did she keep dat in her pocket.............. :D... was she afraid...... or..........]by seein dis evry1 started laughin........... hw can a person ctrl laugh by cin dis....
now i dnt bliv it.... evr1 said.....
v vacated frm hstl.... [wanna cm 2 dis place durin xmas vacn...!!]
left our great chart paper der..!!!
tym passed......... itz xmas tym.... got a cal frm hstl... dey shifted dat hstl 2 another house!!!!
onam...... xmas..........public xam..............entrance xam........................ got admission in an engg colg......
hey der i met 1 of my hstlmate....[entrance coachin..] stil i had a mind 2 try ojo..... she told a story abt ojo...1 f our frd tried ojo at hstl[onam vacn itself...!!, in d same hstl wer i stayed...., d same chart paper dat i left..]..... i was shocked 2 hear it...... spirit came.............!!! [ya.. she told lyk dat... ] was it d reason for shiftin hstl 2 new place! did spirit came ..?????? was it followin our hstl matron!!! dnt knw...................... d girl who tried ojo didnt rite board xam...!! :( .. cant bliv ...........[ya... i knw u also cant bliv.............].... but itz a real story........ do u bliv in ghost.... lyf aftr death................. i do bliv now..! ;)
hey turn bac... sm1 z standin........... oh der z no1...??......... but itz true.............. der may b sm1... but u cant c..... ofcourse u dnt hav power 2 c it........ wel.. meditation vl giv dat power....;) itz true dat spirit exists... but u cant c them................................................................. thy silently follow us.... thy wnt harm us.. unless v harm them...!! :D [ der z no action vthout reaction.................]dnt disturb them...... let them njoy in our world......................... ;)

smtymz d unexpected can happen.........

got bored vth luv story!!if so............................here comes another one..............a true story of my frd.....i am riting frm his side......ok???frm here onwardzz "i" doesnt mean me..!bt my frd.....dnt get confused.. ;)
btech lyf gifted me vth soooo many frds.....colg lyf...........d only part of lyf dat brngz smile on our face vth tearzz...........d gr8 momentz wen v wer 2 gther......d silly fightzz for stupid
reasonzz.............i was nt at al diff......njyed each n evry part f colg lyf..............startin frm frdship 2 luv......even though my numberzz didnt work.!! ;).........helped so many 2 find der lyf
partner......dey found but my gr8 ideas didnt workout ther also!..
no one cud imagine f d day wen dey need to say alvidha 2 colg lyf.............ys d day arrived.......wen i lukd around.....evry1 ws busy sayin bye 2 der lover..saying take it as a joke..!aftr al v r
frdzz :-D..............................wat 2 do.....i hadnt any gfz to say lyk dis... ;) ......but i had a hand ful of gr8 frdzz...boyz n girlz ready 2 do anytng...my mom also knew them...i used to tel evrytng
abt my frdzz to her....said bye to my frdzz..[girlzz].......[hope to meet u al smwhere...........dnt 4get me...............]....even though i said dat i was afraid whether dis frdship vl last....!aftr al dey r
girlzz....n itz diff to read der mind....[but i knw l'le bit girls psychology..........d only tng dat i learnt in btech! ]........................vacated hstl.........kept contact vth al my frdzz......yrz passed....evry1
got busy in der lyf..........1.........2...........3.............4.........5...............ys 5 yrz aftr colg lyf.....................i came down[frm US!] to njy vacation vth my family....[girlzz dnt worry ...stil i am single....]....went for shoppin vth my mom.....sm1 s comin in my opposite side.........hey my clsmate......ys
best frdz(girlz)....wat a surprise....i was soooo excited........they didnt reach near me............................i introduced them to my mom at a distance..........wel...she knw them........................
ys.....dey recognized me.............smiled.............................but........but..............oh..no.......smiled n entered a shop vthout talkin 2 me................ :( .........i dnt knw y dey do dat.........?? didnt dey
recognise me.....if so y did they smile.........???my mom was luking me...................she askd.....................r those girlzz ur best frdzz...........how strange........abt thm na..u were talkin al d tym at home...........!!smtng was ringin...........my mobile.............wel..i thought it may b those girlzz...........dey alwz luv to mak fun f me....!!no..it ws not my mob ringin..............................thn wat......................................................................................
i opened my eyes.............sm1 was callin me........he said......cls is over.......da.. let us bunk d cls b4 d next teacher comes...i lukd d tym.............it was 2 pm......................................................oh
God...........it was a dream............................................i was sleepin in cls.....!![for d first tym i saw a dream while sleepin in cls........an unxpectd 1] :-D
5..................4................3...............2.............1i am stil d same..doin my btech S8................it was 1 of d last workin day at colg.......
evry1 wish for der dream to turn true...!but here i dnt..............sm people say dat dreamz show us our future......oh..no..........i dnt bliv..................stil v r best frdzz......hope dat dream wnt work!!

became graduates vth flyin colorzz!!

sorry for d looooooooooong break that v tuk.....i knw der s no need f such formalities.........the tym gap f 1.5 yrz dat v needed to gain a btech degree ended(frm mini project)..............n our
final sem result s out..........now v 3 are graduates...!!!evry1 s busy decidin wat 2 do nxt.....mtech....lecture post.........short term course.....bank coachin.....or shud wait for d company's cal........wel,i tink der s no need to waste tym by makin
decision!!!!!watz d need of makin a fast decision.....???itz true dat d early bird catches d worm...but d second mouse gets d cheese.. :-Daftr al no one can over turn ur destiny... ;)let us wait n c wat God has wrote in his buk for v 3..........ys..v r waiting 4 d unexpected to happen.....

1947(+62) a luv story....

dnt knw wat to rite as next post...........my ph s rining....let me ans it.................................................hey got a topic to rite.......dnt tink i am feminist aftr readin..!!!wel,i vl share vth u d story i
heard on ph now....................d rest u decide....evry1 s interested 2 hav a boyfrd..or a girl frd during colg lyf...atleast for d sake f assignments...lab notes.....to teach them aftr bunkin cls...to pay bil at canteen......!!!sm hav a gud
intention................2 mak thm der lyf partner.!!!here s a true story f a girl.......who thought dat she wnt fal in luv in her lyf.....[i dnt knw y she firmly blvd in it!! ;) ].........ys....she didnt fal in luv in colg lyf......[smtymzz it may b unknwn to
me]
atlast she fel in luv vth sm1.......ys...d place where she s workin.............let us analyse hw she tried to xpress her luv.............sooo strange....!!but interestin......................sendin mails
daily.....msgin.......but dis old numbers didnt work.........tried many numbers but no response frm him.......!!she heard a shockin news dat he s goin to china in 1 month..........oh wat 2
do...........til now she dnt knw whether he s committed.........she decided to send a mail wishing him happy jrny...![der s 1 mor month for his jrny......silly girl....]

a part of letter[sm part s clipped]
hi...wishin u a hapy jrny........whn vl b our nxt meetin.....i vl invite u for my marriage................shud com.!...n dnt 4get 2 cal me for urz.......any tng fixed............................??

reply...
hey..i am goin aftr 1 month only.....y did u send wish now....?hey ntng fixed..still searching for my lyf partner......[y shud he add dis to reply.....;) ]note my gmail id..n mobile num......[silly girl....smart boy....]
she was sooo thrilled to c d reply.....[oru mail il okke aalukal veezhuvoo enthooo]
thn ph calzz......msgz...mailz........wat not!! ;)
days passed.........both f them decided to tel abt ter relation at home............
[behind d screen....he didnt tel his parentz...!!aftr al itz a tym pass.....]
boy:wait for 2 yrz.....til i return frm China......
yrz passed......
she got an invitation....ys....u r rit...his wedding card..........vth a note.....sry i cant marry u............dnt curse me.....i am goin to marry my boss's daughter..............urz luvinnaresh[for d tym being let him b naresh....]
wel....she was nt sad to c dat.....she was confused......who s dat naresh...............she had studied vth 2 -3 naresh................thnk God....d ful name ws der....................
At dat tym sm1 rang d bell.....
oh..............wait..........................let her open d door.........!
ys...her kids returned frm school.........................! :-D
Now a dayz girls r smarter than boys!!
[itz a true story.....she s waitin for him to return...................but i dnt knw wat vl b d climax...........just added smtng frm my side!!!]
let us wait n c for d real climax...